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Before the Breakthrough
You have tried to date and find your person on your own.
Maybe you’ve tried online dating, had friends set you up or even went to therapy to address some past trauma to help you get free from the pain of being stuck with the desire to get married but still winding up frustrated, alone or in a misaligned relationship. You may even feel hopeless about this area of your life, think it’s time to stop trying and may believe there is no one out there for you. You have prayed, hoped, waited…time and again. You have felt rejected over and over in misaligned relationships that should not have made it past the first date much less the first month. You want to experience “a desire fulfilled is a tree of life” without any further deferred hope that “makes the heart sick” (Prov. 13:12).
Your family and friends have given you a hard time about dating and marriage...
and they may not even understand your faith. You can’t wait for them to gather and celebrate your marriage instead of you always being the one who’s celebrating everyone else’s lives.
You might even feel bitter because...
you dream of marrying the person God has for you, but you have but you have no idea where to start…or where to start again. Time keeps ticking, your prayers seem to go unanswered and you’re tired of being alone. You’re a strong single Christian man or woman, you’ve tried every dating tactic out there and read the books, but you don’t feel any closer to meeting your person. God’s aligned match for you.
You desire a marriage that honors God...
but you are not even sure that exists for you. Promising first dates have led to no second dates or a long, misaligned relationship that resulted in compromised boundaries emotionally, physically or both. Your desire to be married to a true kingdom partner has gone unfulfilled though you’ve tried everything, and you may even feel like you’ve met every available bachelor or bachelorette on the planet.
Breakthrough Barriers
You don't want to keep looking for the right person in the wrong places
and feeling frustrated without knowing where to go next.
You don't want to continue feeling hopeless...
about finding your person and staying stuck repeating empty cycles only to come up short time and again.
You don't want to look back on your life with regret...
wishing you’d learned how to detox your heart, tap into the Holy Spirit’s guidance and become the person that your future spouse is seeking and praying for instead of settling for giving up or for staying in shallow relationships.
You have stayed single but deep down, you deeply desire to purposefully pursue or be purposefully pursued...
and you feel confused as to why you can’t figure out how to do that day after day, year after year, decade after decade, because you have not moved forward with a solution that actually works without spending thousands of dollars on all of the dating services.
You don't want to remain chained to thinking...
it must not be God’s will for you to get married or that you have to make a dead-end relationship work and spend precious time and money on more dating services or therapy (to the tune of thousands of dollars) only to not even get to the root of what’s kept you stuck.
The Price You Pay To Stay The Same
Without clarity on God's vision for your marriage, alignment in your values and a Spirit-led plan to position yourself for a godly spouse, it's going to cost you…
Forcing Yourself To Make Peace With Staying Single
You tried to make yourself desirable, be open to going out with anyone once and do a free trial on Match.com. You even paid for a premium membership after your free trial ended. You let your friends set you up on dates. You’ve even talked to your therapist about your desire to marry, made your list of qualities you hope for in your spouse, prayed and waited, but yet you don’t know why you haven’t found him or her yet. You’ve made peace with staying single, or have you?
Ongoing Frustration
You will continue to feel frustrated trying to find your person in all of the obvious ways - online, singles’ events, etc. - without doing the heart work first. God’s plan is to help you become the person that your future spouse is praying for.
You won't ever be able to shake the doubt...
that he or she is out there praying for you because you dream of walking down the aisle, building God’s kingdom together and doing all of life with your godly spouse. And you know you may never have this desire fulfilled if you don’t let God do something new in you.
You risk spending thousands of dollars...
on dating services, therapy, going Dutch on dates or buying plane tickets or filling up your gas tank to date long distance, and it’s still not moving towards the purposeful kingdom marriage you wholeheartedly desire.
The Spouse Strategy™ will help you shift from frustrated & stuck to purposefully positioned for covenant love!
Now you too can learn to love and be loved in a purposeful relationship, and it’s a lot easier than you think. Simple? No. Easy? Yes, for the Lord’s yoke is light and easy (Matthew 11:30). We don’t complicate what Jesus has made clear.
Purposeful dating doesn’t have to be hard if you know God’s heart for you, for dating and marriage. The secret lies in God’s Word and in allowing others to walk this journey with you.
Most people try to walk through dating alone, but those who succeed and move from godly dating to a kingdom marriage do so with healthy accountability. And that’s where The Spouse Strategy and Coach Chrissy come in!
Everyone who’s ever dated on purpose for a purpose - to glorify God and help advance His kingdom here on earth together - knows this. They did not date without the secret kingdom sauce of guidance and accountability. And now you can discover these dating secrets, too. No more flying solo.
Imagine this being your reality...
Picture a life where you're purposefully dating...
and every day is filled with joy and peace. You no longer have a need to prove your worth, continue entertaining a dead-end relationship or jump from dating app to dating app.
Date God's way and consistently experience peace...
without ever having to wonder if it is God’s will for you to purposefully date again. You can take God’s Word to the bank: “Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you your heart’s desires.” Psalm 37:4
Envision a future where you are building your kingdom marriage day-by-day...
because you chose to date purposefully, seek wise counsel and allow others to walk with you and give you feedback through our Spouse Strategy Community. You sought God’s Word daily instead of your relying on emotions, and you chose to heal from prior hurt and relationship pain. Every day is filled with the joy of the Lord without the need to compromise His standard or settle in order to fulfill your desire to share your life with a godly man or woman.
You're able to say no to a second date...
without feeling guilty or trying to force something you know is not meant to go further, and you can peacefully move forward with your focus on Christ instead of simply seeking pleasure. Your identity and hope are anchored, and you are secure because Jesus is Lord…not any man or woman.
With The Spouse Strategy™ You Will:
✔ Master the skills needed to release pain from past relationships...
love who God created you to be, understand His heart for relationships between a man and a woman, grasp God’s vision for your kingdom marriage, allowing you to meet the person God has for you, which means you’ll be ready to date on purpose for a purpose.
✔ You will gain in-depth knowledge...
on how to detox your heart and reset your identity according to God’s Word and not the world, empowering you to release self-limiting beliefs and lies that the enemy has tried to use to keep you stuck.
✔ Get step-by-step guidance...
to date with purpose and confidence, enabling you to move freely toward a Christ-centered and kingdom-focused marriage without the pain and frustration of the past.
✔ You will unlock clarity for God's vision for your marriage...
that will revolutionize how you approach dating, leading to peace and purpose in your dating life. This means no more second, third and fourth dates when specific red flags are present on the first date.
JOIN THE SPOUSE STRATEGY™ NOWWho is Coach Chrissy?
I’m a licensed psychotherapist with 14+ years of experience helping people heal and thrive, a wife of 12+ years and a homeschooling mama of two. But before that, I spent 15 years in painful dating cycles—staying too long, compromising my values and wondering if marriage was really for me.
It wasn’t until God led me through deep healing and identity clarity that everything changed. I learned to break free from lies, embrace my worth as His daughter and date with peace and purpose. Not long after, I met my husband, Matt—and today I help singles do the same.
That’s why I created The Spouse Strategy™—a Spirit-led roadmap to break cycles, align with God’s vision and pursue love with clarity, confidence and kingdom purpose.
What To Expect Inside
The Spouse Strategy™
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Heart Healing + Identity Reset
2
Clarifying God's Vision For Your Marriage
3
Assess Your Own Character, Calling + Core Values
The Spouse Strategy™ Step-By-Step Plan:
STEP 1
HEART DETOX + IDENTITY RESET
Heal emotional wounds, release past disappointments & reaffirm your identity in Christ that will result in clarity, wholeness & renewed self-worth as a beloved child of God, ready to love from a place of overflow.
STEP 2
CLARIFYING GOD'S VISION FOR YOUR MARRIAGE
Align your desire for marriage with God's purpose, not just personal preference.
STEP 3
ALIGNMENT AUDIT: CHARACTER, CALLING & CORE VALUES
Assess your own character, calling & values and create a Kingdom Alignment Map to help you identify a truly aligned partner.
Angelina's Breakthrough
Angelina’s story is dripping with God’s glory. She came to me in 2023 deeply brokenhearted from a misaligned relationship & painful breakup with blurry boundaries. Her father wounds kept her stuck in the cycle of attracting almosts and maybes, not recognizing red flags quickly, holding on for too long & enduring emotional abuse. We slowly & prayerfully worked through The Spark Method™ together, seeking Holy Spirit’s counsel in each session. She faced her pain, opened her heart & trusted the Lord to lead her by faith. She also courageously admitted where she’d made wrong turns out of her pain.
One year later, the Lord blessed her with her dream job in a new city. She met a man within weeks that was specifically many things we discussed - a man who wanted God’s approval before asking her to be in a committed relationship, a peaceful complement to her life & a clear, quick yes from God.
Her boyfriend is steady, joyful, loves God and leads her with kindness and strength. They attend church together and have committed to keeping their relationship free from sexual immorality, as the Word instructs. (1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3)
She describes this relationship as “Ephesians 3:20” - more than she could have asked for or imagined. This is an aligned relationship built upon a firm foundation.
Angelina’s willingness to engage in whole heart healing with God and wise counsel allowed her to be a yielded, prepared vessel for God’s glory. Praise the Lord!
Our Love Story: A Testimonial Of God's Faithfulness
Matt + Chrissy
For years, I prayed for love — but deep down, I was still avoiding the wounds I didn’t want to face. I longed for a godly marriage, yet I was still leaning on the world’s methods, repeating the wrong patterns, and hoping someone else would complete me.
I had the desire for covenant — but not the alignment to sustain it.
Then the Lord interrupted my waiting season with one question that changed everything:
“Are you becoming the kind of person you’re praying for?”
💔 That moment broke me open. I had to face the parts of me still in need of healing, the habits sabotaging my future, the people I entertained just to avoid being alone, and the ways I claimed to trust God while still clinging to control.
So I surrendered. I stopped trying to be chosen and started living as someone already called. I laid down my list and picked up His vision. I asked God to align my heart—not just my love life.
💫 And here’s what happened when I did:
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I stopped mistaking red flags for divine tests
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I stopped shrinking to be loved & started standing in who I was
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I found peace in my singleness for the first time
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I became unavailable to anything outside my calling
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I could finally recognize God’s best—because I was already walking in it
💫 And that’s when God brought my husband—not as a reward, but as a reflection of the work He had already done in me.
Here's What You Get In The Spouse Strategy™:
✔ Offer #1: The Spouse Strategy™ Master Class
A divine disruption that transforms singleness into purposeful pursuit
Valued at $200
✔ Offer #2: Heart Detox & Identity Reset
Healing emotional wounds and reaffirming your identity in Christ that will result in clarity, wholeness and renewed self-worth as a beloved child of God, ready to love from a place of overflow
Valued at $350
✔ Offer #3: Clarifying God’s Vision For Your Marriage
Align your desire for marriage with God’s purpose, not just personal preference; you will know what kind of spouse & marriage you’re called to, not just what looks good on paper
Valued at $350
✔ Offer #4: Alignment Check: Character, Calling & Core Values
Assess your own character, calling & values; create a Kingdom Alignment Map to help you identify a truly aligned partner
Valued at $350
✔ Offer #5: Purpose-Driven Positioning
Develop intentional dating habits and bold boundaries to position yourself socially and spiritually where aligned connections can flourish
Valued at $350
✔ Offer #6: Faith-Fueled Action Plan
Activate consistent, Spirit-led movement with practical strategies in alignment with God’s timing
Valued at $350
✔ Offer #7: Bonus - Covenant Mindset + Preparation
Shift from casual dating to covenant-thinking and preparation for marriage
Valued at $250
✔ Offer #8: Weekly Group Coaching / Q&A calls
Community support, strengthening through coaching and ongoing encouragement from the group experience
Valued at $500
✔ Offer #9: Downloadable Prayer & Journaling Guides
Printable prophetic prayer prompts & journaling guides to position you for intentional dating & reflection
Valued at $100
✔ Offer #10: Community of Faith-Fueled Singles
Ongoing online community with single men and women who are engaging in The Spouse Strategy, moderated by coaches
Valued at $200
TOTAL VALUE: $3,000
BUT don't pay the TOTAL VALUE:
$3,000
Instead, for a LIMITED TIME ONLY, The Spouse Strategy™ is selling at a SPECIAL PRICE!
Get The Spouse Strategy™ when it releases and receive the one-time, special offer discount below:
While the normal price for The Spouse Strategy™is:
$500
We are giving you a ONE TIME ONLY special offer:
ONE-TIME INSTALLMENT OF:
$500
$400 pay in full
(Save an extra $100 when you pay in full!)
✔ The Spouse Strategy™ Masterclass
✔ Heart Detox and Identity Reset
✔ Clarifying God’s Vision for Your Marriage
✔ Alignment Check: Character, Calling & Core Values
✔ Purpose-Driven Positioning
✔ Faith-Fueled Action Plan
✔ Bonus: Covenant Mindset & Preparation
✔ Weekly Group Coaching/Q&A Calls
✔ Downloadable Prophetic Prayer Prompts & Journaling Guides
✔ Private Community of Faith-Fueled Singles
2 MONTHLY INSTALLMENTS OF:
$250 payment plan
(Billed for 2 months)
✔ The Spouse Strategy™ Masterclass
✔ Heart Detox and Identity Reset
✔ Clarifying God’s Vision for Your Marriage
✔ Alignment Check: Character, Calling & Core Values
✔ Purpose-Driven Positioning
✔ Faith-Fueled Action Plan
✔ Bonus: Covenant Mindset & Preparation
✔ Weekly Group Coaching/Q&A Calls
✔ Downloadable Prophetic Prayer Prompts & Journaling Guides
✔ Private Community of Faith-Fueled Singles
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All sales are final. No cancellations or refunds.
While the normal price for The Spouse Strategy™:
$500
We are giving you a ONE TIME ONLY special offer:
ONE-TIME INSTALLMENT OF:
$500
$400
(Save an extra $100 when you pay in full!)
✔ The Spouse Strategy™ Masterclass
✔ Heart Detox and Identity Reset
✔ Clarifying God’s Vision for Your Marriage
✔ Alignment Check: Character, Calling & Core Values
✔ Purpose-Driven Positioning
✔ Faith-Fueled Action Plan
✔ Bonus: Covenant Mindset & Preparation
✔ Weekly Group Coaching/Q&A Calls
✔ Downloadable Prophetic Prayer Prompts & Journaling Guides
✔ Private Community of Faith-Fueled Singles
Secure Checkout
All sales are final. No cancellations or refunds.
Got questions? I have the answers!
Question 1: What is the duration of The Spouse Strategy™?
Question 2: Is The Spouse Strategy™ just for mature Christians, or can young Christians join too?
Question 3: How will the course or program be delivered? Is it online or in-person?
Question 4: Can I access the course materials and resources after I have finished the program?
Question 5: Are there any prerequisites or specific requirements to enroll in The Spouse Strategy™?
Question 6: Will I receive a certificate or any kind of recognition upon completion?
Question 7: Is there a refund policy if I am not satisfied with The Spouse Strategy™?
Question 8: Will I have access to one-on-one coaching or mentoring sessions with the instructor?
Question 9: Are there any additional costs or hidden fees associated with the course or program?
Question 10: Can I interact with other students or participants in the program?
Question 11: Will the course or program provide ongoing support or resources beyond the main content?
Question 12: What topics or skills will be covered in The Spouse Strategy™?
Question 13: Are there any specific outcomes or goals that participants can expect to achieve?
Question 14: Is The Spouse Strategy™ a clinical therapy program?
Who is the The Spouse Strategy™ for?
The Faithful Frustrated Woman
You love God, serve in church, have done all the “right” things, but you feel overlooked, discouraged or like God’s forgotten your love story. You are praying for clarity. You want to break old dating patterns and align with God’s vision for marriage - but you don’t know where to start. You’ve waited faithfully...now it’s time to partner with God and position yourself for a covenant relationship.
The Purpose-Driven Kingdom Man
You are tired of shallow dating. You want a Proverbs 31 woman - but you are unsure of how to discern well, pursue God’s way or even prepare yourself spiritually for marriage. You’re looking for clarity, character refinement and guidance in walking out a Holy Spirit-led pursuit. If you’re done with dating drama and ready to lead a marriage with vision, integrity and purpose - The Spouse Strategy is for you.
The Spiritually-Stuck Single Mom/Dad
You’ve tried before and have been disappointed and hurt. You’re now protecting your heart and your children. You’re hesitant to trust again but deep down still desire covenant love. You want a safe, Spirit-led pathway to explore dating without compromising your standards--or your calling as a mother/dad. You’re not disqualified. God still has a beautiful, aligned love story for you--and your children, too.
Who is The Spouse Strategy™ NOT for?
The Casual Christian Dater
The Spouse Strategy™ is for those ready to let God lead every area of their lives - not just add Him in when convenient. This person wants results without transformation. They treat dating like a game, want instant results and aren’t interested in spiritual growth, surrender or accountability. They believe in God but aren’t about to stop sleeping with people or let Jesus into their dating lives like that.
The “Fix Me Fast” Seeker
The Spouse Strategy™ invites wholeness, yes - but from the inside out. This person might resist the deeper work of identity reset and heart detox and expect the course or the coaching to be the solution. Looking for healing from external sources (a course, a coach, a partner) instead of doing the inner work with God. They may feel broken and want a person to make them feel whole again.
The Skeptical, Self-Righteous Churchgoer
The Spouse Strategy™ was created for teachable, open-hearted believers, not people who easily confuse spiritual pride with maturity. Those who are resistant to mentorship, often dismissive of practical or strategic tools and see faith as passive waiting rather than active obedience would not benefit from this course.
You've prayed for it. You've waited for it. Now it's time to prepare for it. Step into The Spouse Strategy™ & start living the love story God wrote for you.
While the normal price for The Spouse Strategy™ is:
$500
We are giving you a ONE TIME ONLY special offer:
ONE-TIME INSTALLMENT OF:
$500
$400
(Save an extra $100 when you pay in full!)
✔ The Spouse Strategy™ Masterclass
✔ Heart Detox and Identity Reset
✔ Clarifying God’s Vision for Your Marriage
✔ Alignment Check: Character, Calling & Core Values
✔ Purpose-Driven Positioning
✔ Faith-Fueled Action Plan
✔ Bonus: Covenant Mindset & Preparation
✔ Weekly Group Coaching/Q&A Calls
✔ Downloadable Prophetic Prayer Prompts & Journaling Guides
✔ Private Community of Faith-Fueled Singles
2 MONTHLY INSTALLMENTS OF:
$250
(Billed for 2 months)
✔ The Spouse Strategy™ Masterclass
✔ Heart Detox and Identity Reset
✔ Clarifying God’s Vision for Your Marriage
✔ Alignment Check: Character, Calling & Core Values
✔ Purpose-Driven Positioning
✔ Faith-Fueled Action Plan
✔ Bonus: Covenant Mindset & Preparation
✔ Weekly Group Coaching/Q&A Calls
✔ Downloadable Prophetic Prayer Prompts & Journaling Guides
✔ Private Community of Faith-Fueled Singles
